Marvin Perry asked:


You know weird things happen sometimes on first dates. You get a bad hair day. You trip while walking towards your date. You get up on the wrong side of the bed. And one day you just can’t get anything right no matter how hard you try. These things leave lasting impressions on your dates; some may be good or bad, funny or irritating. But not in online dating where first impression is in your control.

In online dating, you take control of the first shot to initially impress another person. How? Well, by providing a picture in your profile. Physical appearance is really important and it plays a huge role in online dating. Besides, you do not want to talk to ghosts.

Some people may think it is irrelevant to show their online dates how they look. Perhaps, they are embarrassed of how they look. They fear the initial reaction of rejection upon seeing their picture, and they want daters to see within first and ignore physical features. Others may think that it is not a safe thing to do or scared of being stalked by unlikable individuals. Others may also think it is not really important at all. They think their profile can already impress and attract individuals of their preference. Few seem to have no recent picture at all. Besides, would it not be funny to post your high school picture when you’re already past 40?

You must realize that posting a picture in an online dating site is a big leap towards finding your dream date. Physical appearance still matters. I am not saying that you need to have that Angelina-Jolie lips to have a Brad Pitt-like hot date. My point is that a picture is very important because it shows the other person what you look like. You do not have to be the ideal beautiful girl or handsome guy to get a nice picture or to let other daters contact you. A nice picture is any picture that is taken when you look your best. It is something recent, not deceiving and vulgar. It may look simple to you but may exude a certain kind of elegance for other daters.

Even if your profile is outstanding, many people will question why you have not posted a picture. They will start to make speculations, bad judgments, or remove you from their list of prospects. And, of course, you do not want such things to happen.

Deceiving online daters may at times post another person’s picture. This does not sound good, especially when you find yourself falling in love with the other person you have been communicating with already. Worst, if the feeling is mutual, this is definitely a big problem when you meet up.

Any explanation afterwards will not help you get out of the situation or get back to that mutual attraction. Besides your physical appearance integrity also counts in online dating.

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Neal Talbot asked:


No matter how attractive or charming you may be – there will be people not interested in talking with, dating or getting into a relationship with you. This is a simple fact of life.
Some women like George Clooney but not Brad Pitt, some men like Cameron Diaz but not Angelina Jolie. Certain people like certain things - and if you don’t appear to have those things - they’re simply not interested. They key is to not let this rattle your self-confidence.
In the dating world you’re going to face rejection. Unless you married the very first person you asked out, odds are you’ve had to face it. This is natural… not something to get too worried about. Some singles are filled with anger, embarrassment, anxiety, fear and shame when they’re faced with any form of rejection, but this simply doesn’t have to be - and shouldn’t be - the case.
Remember, it’s not a matter of if you’ll face rejection in your dating life, but rather when and how will you deal with it. So, whether it’s a first approach, first date or early into a relationship, whether you saw it coming or it hit you like an unexpected bombshell, there are some key ways of handling rejection and quickly overcoming it.
Don’t take it personallyIn many cases, the ‘so-called’ rejection has nothing to do with you. They may be having a bad day and don’t feel like having a conversation with someone new. They may cut it off after a second date because they just got fired and they’re life is suddenly in crisis. They may break the relationship off because their unable to overcome their commitment issues. All you can do is give it your best shot and let the chips fall where they may. If you gave it your best shot – congratulate yourself on the effort – and move on.
Don’t act outPeople who are single the longest can’t handle rejection. After a person rejects their attempt at conversation, they say, “That’s okay you don’t look that interesting anyway,” and storm off. They end up looking petty, silly and foolish.
After a person rejects their attempt at conversation, a smart single says, “That’s okay. But if you change your mind and want to have some engaging conversations – I’ll be over there,” and walks off with a smile on their face. This classy exit increases the likelihood of them being approach by not only the person, but all those around them. Cancel any pity partiesA trap singles fall into is getting caught up in a pity party. They ask themselves, “Why did this happen to me?” They begin to question their self-worth. They start to second-guess themselves? They begin to develop a fear of the opposite sex. And they waste weeks, months, even years, dwelling on a rejection.
Be sure to cancel any pity parties no matter how bad you feel. They’re simply not going to help you. Instead, have a party where you invite all your friends and some attractive singles and have a great time.
Remember why you’re awesomeIn times where you’re facing rejection, it’s important to remember what makes you awesome. Why your loved ones cherish your presence. Why anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. Instead of dwelling on why something didn’t work out, take a moment to write out a list of your positive traits instead. Keep your focus on the positive as much as you can because a positive outlook always earns positive results.
Keep positiveHandling rejection and overcoming it always involves keeping a positive attitude. A positive attitude helps prevent you from feeling sorry for yourself, prevents you from getting scared off, prevents you from taking it personally and keeps you looking at things from a proper perspective.
A person wasn’t interested in talking with you - well go talk to another one. No second date - well go get another first date. Positive people don’t let something as simple as a simple rejection ruin their day or slow their path to finding their special someone.
ReflectIf you face continual rejection it’s important you step back and take a look at why that might be happening. Are you coming on too strong? Are you struggling to make conversation? Is it obvious you’re nervous? A key part of improving your social skills is the ability to reflect… and evolve.
If you can find what you’re doing wrong and quickly correct it you’re not going to have to face as much rejection. So don’t be afraid to step away from a situation, visualize what you were doing, find out what you did wrong, understand how to correct, they go out there and correct it..
Think of it as a favorThe worst thing that can happen in dating is not rejection, but to get strung along, thinking the person really likes you when they don’t. If a first or second date doesn’t turn into anything more, be thankful.
This may seem strange, but having one of you acknowledge an incompatibility early on - rather than later on - is a huge time-saver. The brush-off allows you to chalk it up to experience and move on to someone who is more appreciative of your time and energy.
Lastly…Learning how to handling rejection without damaging your self-confidence – whether it’s in the dating or business world – is an exceptionally valuable skill. You’re not going to win at everything you do, but that doesn’t mean you have to look bad doing it. Those who can handle rejection and not lose a skip in their step, find themselves not losing very often, because they have learned to hold their heads high no matter what. It’s important everyone learn this skill.
Nothing is going to change the fact you’re awesome – unless you stop believing it’s true. No one can make you feel bad – but yourself. So don’t let any sort of rejection – big or small – rattle your confidence level. Remember, you can’t be everyone’s idea of a perfect match. That wouldn’t be fair to everyone else. But be sure of this, the man or woman of your dreams is out there. And the less time you spend worrying about or dwelling on rejection, the less time you’ll have to find them.
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Tuesday Knight asked:


Celebrities are people too, or so we’ve been told. Whether or not it’s true, Americans love to think of them as something more than just people. We are fascinated by them. Fascinated by the choices they make, the company they keep and whether or not they succeed or fail. We watch them on the way up and watch them even more closely on the way down. We scrutinize them in every way, mindful of the mistakes they make even more than we are of the successes they create.

So why are we are so fascinated by celebrity culture? Certainly part of it is the media, which reports on their actions as though the world’s fate depended on it. But on the other end of the stick, isn’t it us who decides that People magazine sells more copies than Time or that Inside Edition gets better ratings than the local news?

Yes, we are indeed the ones responsible, and no one seems willing to apologize for it. Why should we? Celebrities, because of their status, have the ability to do, see and experience things we simply can’t. How many posh beachfront homes in Malibu do you own? Same here. How many starlets or Hollywood hunks have you taken out for a night on the town? Ditto on this end.

But there’s more to it than just the money, the cars, the mansions and the parties. Part of it is that we do want to believe they are just like we are. We’re looking for kinks in the publicist armor. When we find it, we generally sympathize. Take Jennifer Aniston’s split with Brad Pitt, for example. How many of you sympathized with TV’s “Rachel” and bought into the theory that Angelina Jolie was a home wrecker? Now how many of you who answered affirmatively would care as much if it happened to your next door neighbor?

The reason for that is simple. We watch them. We grow up with them. We invite them into our homes every night and more often than not, they never fail to entertain. It’s natural for us to care about these people we’ve never met, because in a way, we have met, and through their acting, songwriting or performing, we feel we know them well.

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Gigi Mill asked:


Can a Wedding Gift be thoughtful and fun at the same time? Absolutely! there are many ways to make your gifts fun and unique to make your very own personal statement in a unique way.

To choose a perfect Wedding Favors for your guests along with all the intricacies of wedding planning is a daunting task for any bride to be. Normally a variety of favors ranging from expensive ones to the not so expensive ones are gifted to the guests at the wedding which are more or less in the same category. One of the ways to be different and not a cookie cutter gift giver is to present a fun wedding favor. A fun wedding gift can be economical and at the same time make a unique statement which will bring a smile to your guests face.

A fun wedding gift can be something personalized to suite a particular personality which would be not only thoughtful and considerate on your part but will make your guest feel very special and honored to be the recipient of a gift full of love and thoughtfulness.

A keepsake or a memory can be turned into a fun gift by presenting it in a unique manner, for instance for the gift to be a keepsake and remembered for a log time to come, it can be something that constitutes an emotional bond between the giver and the recipient. For example a wedding gift can be an intricate or a simple puzzle created out of Photographs or old cherished memories which will not only create suspense and wonderment but also a special emotional bond between the giver and the receiver.

The wedding favor should be given keeping in mind the nature of the person, supposing your recipient is a Casanova you could gift him a puzzle with a picture of Pamela Anderson or Eva Longoria. You can be sure he would be up all night to make sure he got the puzzle right. If its a female recipient she may find keen interest in Brad Pitt and you could always get a puzzle that could be worth solving for that particular personality. Children can also be given something related to their favorite cartoon or even a picture of their parents. To assist you in personalizing your gift you could take a picture of them or even hire someone to make it more fun.

Fun is also a personal matter. What is funny to you may not be funny to others. Everybody perceives fun in a different way. Hence, while selecting the fun wedding favors, keep in mind if there is any element that may hurt someones feelings. Try to be non controversial too. There are many ways to give customized t-shirts with your own images and wordings without being controversial or offensive.

If you are expecting too many guests, you may not be able to customize the wedding favors. You may group them in to different categories- Boys, girls, men, women, elders etc . For example it could be a simple bottle of bubbles for the kids and some do-it-yourself kits for boys. All age groups may enjoy a Frisbee with the picture of a bride & groom!

Eva Longoria , The Desperate Housewives actress and Tony Parker , basketball ace gave bags containing Van Cleef & Arpels bracelets and a stash of make-up worth $700 each to their guests. While the guests enjoyed, many people commented that they got them free from the companies that they sponsored. It is important to give some thing, no matter howe inexpensive or little it might seem from your own money, so that people appreciate the fact that you really care for their feelings. For instance Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s wedding favors were a silver Tiffany clock engraved with “A Moment in Time, June 25, 2006 - Nicole and Keith” which was very much appreciated by the guests.

You may find some items in stores dealing with magic which may be suitable for giving as fun wedding favor. Many online and offline retailers offer only fun wedding favors and gifts. You may look for any funny item that you feel is suitable to be given as a wedding favor. Check your budget to see weather you can customize or personalize the gifts that you buy for your guests as personalization is really not all that expensive these days.

The advantage of a fun wedding favor is not only the fun part but also posterity, your guests will remembered you and your event for a long time because the gift they received was really fun. The idea behind all gifts is to make sure that your guests feel appreciated and to show your respect and love and also that they have a good time at your big event or special occasion. While people tend to forget the wedding favors received at someones wedding, they are likely to remember the fun part of the wedding favors for a long time. It does not matter how expensive or inexpensive the gift is, it does however matter how creative and funny this wedding favor is.

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Elvis Preston King asked:


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There are a thousands things you will have to have running
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Elaine Fung asked:


Why the attraction between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie is so powerful? What is their soul connection?
The best answers are probably in the stars.

Brad Pitt
Birth date: Dec 18, 1963
Birth time: 6:31 AM
Birth place: Shawnee (OK) (USA)

Angelina Jolie
Birth date: Jun 4, 1975
Birth time: 9:09 AM
Birth place: Los Angeles (CA) (USA)

Love Compatibility for Sagittarius Brad Pitt and Gemini Angelina Jolie:

General Sun Sign Interaction
The interaction of Sun in Gemini, which Angelina has, and Sun in Sagittarius, which Brad has, is one of complimentary opposites. Both are outgoing and interested about life. They are both not specially realistic and rational.

Brad’s Sun positive Angelina’s Uranus
This will be most apparent in the way Brad assert his originality and independence. Developing his own unique style and a spirit of experimentation, he can encourage each other in a constant self-development process without trying to own each other in any way.

Brad: Moon in Capricorn
As Angelina has Moon in Aries, she has a strong temperament and an emotionally impulsive nature, which often creates a tense atmosphere. Brad, who has Moon in Capricorn is far more serious and controlled. Though both like to get things done, Brad is easily hurt and becomes very reserved, whenever Angelina acts in a headstrong manner - which is often.

Decendant sign combination
With the Descendant in Gemini, Brad is looking for a partner with whom he can have an intelligent conversation, yet who can at the same time poke fun at his tendency to take himself and his ideas too seriously. Angelina, with the Descendant in Capricorn, needs a partner who can be an example to her as far as responsibility, organisation and self-sufficiency is concerned. She thus evokes a sense of duty in Brad, whilst he would rather have a partner to cheer him up and not take things so seriously.

Venus Sign combination
With Venus in Cancer, Angelina is possessive and vulnerable, with strong, protective instincts in regard to loved ones. Brad, with Venus in Capricorn, takes a relationship very seriously indeed, and after initial hesitation is prepared to make a long-term commitment. This can make for a secure relationship, though Angelina might wish that Brad was more emotionally expressive.

Mars Sign Combination
Angelina, with Mars in Aries, and Brad with Mars in Capricorn make a dynamic and active pair. Brad does have a rather subdued, even inhibited, sexuality, which cannot be said of Angelina, who is spontaneous and feisty. Angelina can feel that Brad places too much restrictions on her life, and she refuses to be tamed. Brad is very absorbed in his work, and may feel that his partner wastes too much time on impulsive behaviour.

Mercury Sign Combination
With Mercury in Gemini Angelina is bright, intelligent, communicative - and completely at home in the world of ideas. Brad, who has Mercury in Capricorn, is far more slow and considered in style. He has little use for impractical theories. He is more concerned with ideas as a means to an end, whilst Angelina sees ideas as an end in themselves. She may lack a mental sparring partner in Brad, and feel that he does not listen to her ideas.

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Frasier Johnson asked:


Meeting on the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith, the famous duo, frequently referred to as ‘Brangelina,’ have plastered a new meaning on the word ‘giving.’ Not only do they make giving look glamorous, but they make it look incredibly easy. Because of the fact they are millionaires, giving large amounts of money and making charitable investments is probably nothing to flinch at for them, but it certainly makes one wonder why there are not more superstars putting their money into such ventures.

Angelina represents and co-founded the group Representing the Education Partnership for Children of Conflict in which she has made it a goal to educate over a million children who have suffered the adverse affect of conflict in various hostile locations around the world. She believe that these children are doomed to turn to violence if they are not educated, but if they are educated they will lead productive lives that will in turn lead to a better world.

Once Brad and Angelina became a pair, he too began traveling abroad with Angelina to assist her in her humanitarian work. Averaging $35 million per year, Brad has sunk a lot of money into various causes overseas including Cambodia where he and Angelina’s adopted son Maddox is from. He has also been responsible for funding rebuilding efforts in New Orleans after the destruction of Hurricane Katrina. So in addition to Angelina’s $20 million per year, they have created this super force that, instead of hoarding their money, they give it away.

This dynamic duo of advocates should be role models for many people. Doing things such as Angelina’s recent visit to troops in Iraq, despite the risk, and her other work as a UN ambassador should be a wonderful example to not only the fans, but to other celebrities who can bring joy to so many other lives by following suit. As for Brad’s rebuilding projects in New Orleans, if each millionaire offered to build one house, renewed communities would emerge everywhere. Perhaps this would be a wonderful challenge to be presented to America’s rich. Either way, one has to admire the work that Angelina and Brad have done for not only America but abroad as well.

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Wesley Berry asked:


If Brad Pitt knows anything about the impact of flowers, he’ll be certain to send a big, beautiful bouquet or arrangement to soon-to-be mother of his child, Angelina Jolie.

Flowers are a traditional gift sent to new mothers for many reasons: they have a wonderful impact on the emotions of all who see them; they can be personalized to the individual and the occasion, and they’re easy to order. But, when is the best time to send flowers to a new mother and what kinds of flowers should you send? Well, there really are no limits, but I do have some suggestions.

In terms of the timing of your gift, consider having the flowers delivered to the new mom’s home after she brings the baby home. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a wonderful thing to receive flowers in the hospital, but nowadays new mothers don’t typically stay in the hospital more than a few days before being released. Also, that short time in the hospital is usually a flurry of activity with first feedings, first baths, and many visitors. Although your beautiful flowers will brighten up her room, she won’t have much time to enjoy them. When those hectic few days are over, the family then has to carry the new baby, the personal belongings of mom and baby, any gifts received during the stay, and all the flowers out of the hospital, fit them into the car, and transport them all home—hopefully without any items spilling. On the other hand, if you send the flowers to her home a few days after the birth of the baby, the new mom will have had time to relax a bit, will be able to enjoy your wonderful gift, and she won’t have to move them from the special place she chooses to display them.

Now, on to the question of what kind of flowers you should give. Well, there are the traditional gifts of either pink or blue flowers depending on the gender of the baby. These arrangements are often presented in baskets adorned with charming stuffed bears or other baby toys. The popularity of these arrangements comes from the